we had sex
ok, so my best friend since i was 3 called me up last night, wanting to hang out. we went to a restaurant with a couple of friends and then headed back to his place so i could crash there for the night. well, i caved, i mean it's not like he was coming on to me or anything, but we had sex! i love him so much and i don't know what to do now! what should i do guys? leave it at that or take it a step forward? i know he's liked me for some time now and i've had the same feelings but i don't want to mess up a 18-year friendship. what do i do?
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BLSalerno711 on
eh...I ended up marrying a girl that I've known since I was a teenager and having a kid with her...and it's all good...now that you've slept together it will never be the same anyway, so you might as well launch a relationship out of it!
curve400 on
hey you took that step! and i agree with blslaerno711 here that its never really going to be the same since you did already sleep together! so why not try it! i mean if you are really that good of friends that not matter what happens true friendships last...through thick and thin! so i say you should go that step foward!
abigail on
u guys are probably right. i mean, it's not like things have been wierd since it happened. he was actually really sweet this morning so, i don't think it'll be a problem. but i can't help but feel like i should have started dating him before i got in bed with him, even if i do know him inside and out. it just sems like he natural order of things. i'm not regreting that we slept together tho, it was nice and i love him, i just hope everything isn't going to change.
